Thursday, September 27, 2018

The first of the very last

friends

friends

friends through the ages
prefects together
 


 Lots of laughter was had at this years matric dance at Westerford High school.  Class of 2018.  Matric dance; mocks and then finals and ......An then it is all over. Many a parent has walked this pathway before me and these are not unique emotions but I need to write them out, so to speak. The first child is always the first of the lasts to experience all those last experiences. We are proud of and privileged to be the parents of this young man. He is not perfect but he is great and we love him. He has enjoyed his years at high school and flourished under the awesome influence and care of great staff and peers. It has been a good journey. A growing journey and a healthy learning experience for him and so also for us. He has really accomplished much and been honoured for these. Well done Chap.

We say goodbye to high school for him with full and sad hearts. It is time and yet it is also the launching off in to world of the unexpected and the uncertain. We send him out and off with our continual support and love and of course with his Great God steering and motivating. His launchin , in many ways , comes at the right time ( of course) but it also seems like it has come too soon. There are all the, " I never said that" or "Did we do that well enough?" It seems as if we could have and should have done more...... and yet, despite our failings, God is at work and he has not dropped the ball, not once. Where we have failed, He is perfect. This truth gives such peace , freedom and joy.

Our job in part, is complete and our work as his parents has changed .It will continue to change as he steps out and continues to study. We are so grateful for the experiences in music and hockey that our school offered and he took up. We are enormously thankful for the many friends and families from our school and the experiences from camps to overseas journeys that have all shaped and prodded; provoked and encouraged in a myriad of ways. We could really not have asked for a better High school journey. Thank you Lord!



we love you


Tom is going to miss you next year.
Friendship brother bond.

Friday, June 1, 2018

History for all?








I grew up as a little girl, on a small holding in white Apartheid South Africa. I was born in 1969 and enjoyed my teenage years at a lily white High School , trying to reconcile the reality of my white experience with that of which was seeping out into the white world from the hidden chaos from places like Soweto.  Thanks to that one , brave teacher who aimed to wake us from our slumber. She was actually an English teacher but we were dealing with a novel based in our History. It was Alan Patons - Cry the Beloved Country and I was in Grade 8.

That class changed my perspective. Although, if you ready any of my blog posts on my childhood, you will see it was not the only thing that let the scales fall.


This link shows Soweto through the ages. If I visited Soweto today I would see a very different place from its beginnings . Separated from its devastating History can not , in any way, bring to life the reality of its present.

History!
What is the fuss all about?

In South African Government schools, children choose and narrow subject choices down in their 3rd last year of school. These subjects they will take fro their final Matric exams. 

History is one of the subjects they can drop or take.
Our government is proposing the History be taken as a compulsory subject to Matric by all children.

This debate is taken place in the midst of a very broken education system. We have many big issues and really it seems as if there is no clear way forward.

I acknowledge this .

Before I share my thoughts on why I think History should be compulsory, I would like to rewind a bit.

Two key  things influence my thoughts. 

1. I did not take History to Matric and often find my own thinking limited in the present understanding of the world because of it.
2. We home school our 4th child - In this decision , we found ourselves choosing curriculum's that are bathed in History. They are designed around History. These Histories are also designed to unfold in a linear way. In other words we learn events in consecutive order. 

The second point here, has revolutionized my thinking and understanding of the modern world. The world I live in has come  a little more into focus.

So, before the government proposed this new change , I had been irritating my family with the very same mantra.

History for all!

I almost feel it is a right.  

The knee jerk reaction from white South Africa is of course to be expected. I read things like...

# ANC History
#whose Histroy
# they cant even do blah blah blah
etc

Well, the truth is, kids already do History to matric and it would not be difficult to see what the Histroy already looks like.
China : Vietnam :  African studies  - what is nationalism ? How it developed?
The Cold War... and these are a few.
Here is the actual curriculum PDF for those who really want to see what Kids are  actually learning.



I realize that this could change again but this will give those who state unashamed on social media comments  that our present government has no idea what they are doing, something else to chew on.

When our eldest son was choosing subjects , we chatted to his History teacher . His thoughts were profound. Take Histroy for what it teaches you to do.

THINK. 
AND write and argue and join dots .

I agree with History to matric because I think all children should be afforded this opportunity to learn about where they come from; where others come from and so more clearly understand where they stand. It will broaden the minds of young South Africans and equip all kids with the tools to go out into life with a clearer understanding of this world. 

I salute this government for attempting to really educate our children for a broader and better thinking SA.