Wednesday, May 15, 2013

The Hidden Hand of God

The book we are studying at our church, St James Kennelworth, is the book of Ruth. In my own bible women's bible study we are doing the book of Esther and in my other one we are studying Galatians. In 2 of these books the theme : God is at work despite the circumstances of life - The Hidden Hand of God at work is a strong thread. I am so excited to be thinking through and praying around this extraordinary theme. God is at work in the story of Ruth and in Esther despite it seeming to be quite the opposite. The Providence of God is so clear and his kindness revealed in the lives of Naomi and Ruth is beautiful.
As we venture on in these 2 books in particular, I am waiting expectantly as God sets this theme firmly in my heart and in my thinking.

Romans 28:28. In all things - the good things and the bad things that happen in this life - God ( the great God of the universe - living and powerful - kind and loving - judge and merciful - faithful and true ) this same God is at work. We might not see him working but he is at work. He is at work in the lives of those people he has called to himself in Jesus Christ. He is working with a purpose in mind.... So that he is glorified and seen to be who he truly is in our lives AND he is at work for our good.

This verse always strangely comforts me. I know that God might not change the circumstances of my life but I am sure that he is working. And when God works things happen.

So, take heart and know that the hidden hand of God is working in your life , oh Christian. he is kind and he provides. You need only rest in his providence as you go about life doing the things you do.

Saturday, May 4, 2013

Out on The Town



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Last night a few friends and I visited The Eastern Food Bazaar in Cape Town City. It is just down the drag from the majestic City Hall and on the right. This dinner destination was high up on my list of ‘must visits’ and so I was thrilled that this was the choice of our food destination.

We arrived after 6.30 and met one of the women who was already there. The way the Bazaar works is there are at least 5 different choices of food type. One chooses the meal for the evening and then all visitors order and pay at a central till after which you return with till slip in hand to collect the meal.

This is both a take away spot and a sit down meal. The delicious food on offer ranged from stuffed Shwama with Falafel and Humus  through to Chinese food and then on to Tandoori type meals and finally resting , for me and indeed most of us, at the Indian Curry spot.

Each spot has a small selection of food and incredibly reasonable prices . It was a gastronomical delight. I chose a Chicken Tikka Misala which came with piles of rice and some other, non – descript green, hottish stuff and also we bought naan and Roti.  All this and a water came it at a meager R40. I was thrilled!!

We all took our meals and went upstairs to a very Easternly decorated spot to relax and enjoy.

Our fellow customers where from all walks of Cape Town life. Many foreign Africans joined the queues in search of cheap, hot, good food. As typically Eastern, Indian  music blared from the make shift speakers and people mingled back and forth  deciding and ordering. It was a noisey hub bub and new and exciting experience for Cape Town. We definitely felt as if we had stepped out for the night, into a different part of the world.

Cape Town City centre is a strange beast in the dark. The beautiful buildings are difficult to see clearly and yet bits of them spring out in the shifting light. The streets are full of trolley people and business people pushing there wares down the road, on the way to safety after a long day of selling. The poor and the homeless come out too. They are more forceful and far braver than in the suburbs. I guess , to survive, you just have to be. No one would care anyway. They demand food and step up really close so as to be ‘ in your face’ with ‘ pathetic talk, often drunken and slurred. These are the nights and times of Friday in Cape Town City.

After a filling meal we decided to set out for coffee. We landed up at a spot called Roxies . A blast from the past. We were seated up the most narrow stairs I have ever been on and we have been some places. One of our friends is blind and she was totally amazing. Through the throng of people at the food bazaar and navigating the streets and pavements and then finally up and down these scary stairs. She was totally calm and trusting and awesome. We all settled on something Kalua or something yummy. It was fun. The bathroom at this spot was something to behold. The restaurant was situated in an old and beautiful house. It had wooden floorboards and a whole bathroom with bath still in tact. The room had been decorated 20 years ago. It was home to half mannequins filled with tattoo and crazy , wild hair. It was home to the legs of the other mannequin  . half floating in mid air, surrounded by fake flowers. The walls were covered with old news paper and comic strips and old theatre adds of days gone by. Some was beautiful while other parts were simply tired and sad. It was strange to wee with all these fake folk staring. It felt like a death scene from a modern movie.

We traveled home after a wonderful and fun evening together. A great bunch of fun and funky friends. What a blessing!!!

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

ADHD and all that Jazz

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For many the words ADHD are enough to raise an eye brow. It is as if the mere having ADHD is a moral decicsion or somehow about will power. People have said things like," oh I don't believe in ADHD" or my personal favourite , " teachers just put kids on Ritalin to control them".  as if teachers had some way of getting kids diagnosed and prescribing Ritalin.

I have found the opposite. I find teachers at our school very cautious in ascribing attention issues to ADHD and if I might say so, not really very well up to date with the why and whats of ADHD. 

I have written about having ADHD in our family before. We are not a stranger to it. This week another son was diagnosed with attention issues and not reaching his potential. We knew this from the start.... and yet, when the diagnoses comes from another - a professional person, well there is a heaviness, a weightiness that comes with it. 

And so I begin to read again about helping children to focus and pay attention. About food and sleep and studying well. About memory recall and boredom busters. With a sad heart I face up to the fact that  ADHD has its limitations. Don't get me wrong, I love tmany, many things about the way the person with ADHD thinks and operates. The way they see the world is fresh and fun and often from acompletely different angle. it is the very real struggles that tthese children have that makes my sad - daunted. 

And yet.... I know two things.

1. God has created these boys of ours with his love and care a
purpose. He has purposed their lives and thought about each one. They are fearfully and wonderfully made.

2. God is at work. He is at work in his world and in our lives to fashion us and form us into the likeness of his wondeful son, Jesus. God is at work in our boys and in us as we parent and guide and help them.

And so we press on the the goal. With the joys and struggles of parenting in general and parenting kids with special needs, we continue to pray and trust Jesus for wisdom and guidance and strength.

ADHD  - link
 http://www.additudemag.com/adhd/article/5821.html