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Oppositional Defiance Disorder or ODD is the most common co morbid associated with ADHD.
ODD is not caused by ADHD but is just more likely to be present when ADHD exists.
According to Dr Green from his book Understanding ADHD, between 40%-60% of ADHD children are oppositional. The typical ADHD lacks the necessary impulse control. The impulsive behaviour means that they are unthinking. The typical ODD behaviour is characterised by a great deal of 'NO" and stubborn, challenging, refusing kind of behaviour. In our experience, our boys exhibit ODD especially when ' stuck in the moment'. At these times we try not to use reason and debate. Time for discussion WILL come afterwards, when the child is unstuck and remorseful.
ODD is very difficult to parent. It is tricky beyond tricky. We have really had to learn new ways of parenting and have turned to professionals for help, advice and support. Studies show that the use of medication definitely helps ODD and in our sons this has totally been the case. Meds have brought a calming to him. With the control of impulses the ODD behaviour does not spiral so much.
People can be really judgemental when it comes to ODD and tend to blame bad parenting and bad children. There is definitely more at play than this simplistic approach. I always remind MYSELF that we are dealing with a neurological condition.
Upskillng through reading GOOD literature on this topic has been really informative and helpful.
Read, read and read again. Get help. It IS available.
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